The main reason is: Smoking feels good after any tiring physical activity. For example, if you go for run, a cigarette after you catch your breath feels almost perfect. With sex, you stack one good feeling after another by smoking.
Benefits of smoking after sex
Habitual post-coitus smokers and even some medical experts cite the alleged “benefits” of the twin acts:
- To people psychologically and physically dependent on nicotine, smoking after sex is a pleasure comparable to the sexual activity itself. Nicotine is just one of 7,000 chemicals a man inhales when he smokes, which leads to the release of such “feel-good” chemicals as dopamine, serotonin and endorphins.
- Nicotine has unique properties that could induce smokers to light up after sex, according to Dr. Pamela Clark. “If you’re up, [nicotine] brings you down; if you’re down it brings you up. It mellows everything out. It’s very relaxing,” she says.
- Smoking after orgasm is an additional pleasure, according to Rik Levesque, who calls himself a life-long lay sexologist, in a post at Quora. However, smoking is done not just after sex but after a “meal, a thrilling ride at the amusement park or even a successful defecation as the resolution to a bout of constipation.”
- Smoking relaxes the body after ejaculation, says Nachiketh Bhattathiri, who describes himself as a former nicotine addict. Smoking is done not just after sex but after going for a jog or a swim or any other strenuous activity when a smoker feels tired and will thus have the urge to light up a cigarette to get his fill of nicotine to relax his body, he adds.
- Smoking after sex “is one of life’s small pleasures, but a very potent one,” according to Zar 17. In a post on a thread in bodybuilding.com, he says aside from the pleasure derived from the act, it introduces that “moment when you need to lie back quietly and reflect on life’s mysteries, your love for your partner and your general happiness.”
Although the popularity of smoking has gone down amid the persistent warnings on the ill effects of nicotine on people’s health, smoking after sex is still being practiced today. It has even evolved, with some variations in the act:
- Some men smoke marijuana instead of cigarette after sex. “It’s like taking another sip of a glass of wine,” Mycal Felix Bassett, a 27-year-old graphic designer from Houston, tells Mic.
- Other men use vape instead of cigarette. “Never been a smoker after sex, but I vape. The little bit of nicotine makes my orgasm go through the roof!” says Taylor Kittenface in an AskReddit thread.
However, many people, including medical experts, have contradictory views on post-coitus puffing:
- Smoking does not complement sex, asserts Asim Siddiqui, in a post on quora.com. Although smoking may enhance the feeling of pleasure after sex, it actually decreases the sexual urge, he adds.
- “Before cigarettes kill you for good, they will first kill your sex life,” says Dr. Madeleine M. Castellanos, in sharecare.com. She says because of the nicotine they inhale, smokers are about twice as more likely to develop erectile dysfunction than non-smokers.
- Smoking also causes infertility. “Men who smoke have low sperm counts,” says Dr. Michael Roizen.
- The sperms of smokers are “more likely to be abnormally shaped,” which degrades his fertility, according to Dr. Harry Fisch.
Some smokers are stuck on the habit of smoking after sex, and not even the most fearsome warnings of cancer and heart disease risks could apparently stop them. This has confounded tobacco researchers who find no physiological reason why men would want an after-sex puff.
They could only point to nicotine addiction and Hollywood, which once glorified the smoke-after-sex act, as the reasons behind the popularity of this habit.
Some researchers say the habit of smoking after sex has no material link at all and is just the product of Hollywood and the media.
Scenes of Don Draper in “Mad Men,” or Mia Wallace in “Pulp Fiction,” or Anne Bancroft as Mrs. Robinson in “The Graduate” smoking after sex have been ingrained in viewers’ mind. Those movies popularized smoking after sex, says Prof. Robert Proctor.
When then U.S. President Richard Nixon signed into law a ban on cigarette advertising on radio and TV in 1970, the tobacco industry took their big-moneyed PR campaign to Hollywood, resulting in an increase in paid product placement for cigarettes in movies until the 1980s, including scenes showing characters smoking in bedrooms.
This Hollywood PR campaign fizzled out at the start of the 21st century as anti-smoking groups intensified their drive to remove cigarettes in films. In 2015, Disney ordered a total ban on smoking scenes in its films.
With the dangers of smoking now clearly etched in the public’s consciousness, fewer Americans are lighting up, and smoking scenes are no longer appearing in movies. Moreover, some men who used to smoke after sex now prefer to sleep after the act.
But still the practice persists. Despite the overwhelming evidence on the health hazards posed by nicotine and the massive anti-smoking campaigns, the tobacco industry’s highly successful PR campaign, with the support of Hollywood, to promote cigarette smoking has nurtured a habit that simply won’t go away.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, smoking remains as the “leading preventable cause of death,” with more than 480,000 Americans still dying of smoking-related illness every year. It is not farfetched to say that some of them had enjoyed smoking after sex countless times during their healthier days.